1. Don’t plan your wedding.
What? I mean it! Take one day out of the week and don’t plan anything. Don’t answer texts, emails or calls from anyone wedding-related (besides your parents!)
2. Stick to a weekly date night with your fiancée.
Having a blocked-off evening on the calendar each week creates intentionality, and it makes time spent together even more special. Read this post for date ideas in Birmingham, AL!
3. Prioritize the big blocks.
You can worry about the little details later! Focus on the big ticket vendors (venue, photographer, catering, florist), then slowly make your way through the small stuff.
4. Ask friends to help.
Don’t load all the pressure on yourself! I promise, your friends want to help. You can have a girl’s night addressing invites, finding gifts for Mum and Dad or organizing your bachelorette weekend!
5. Prioritize sleep and exercise.
While your emotions are high with excitement and there are multiple decisions to make, you want to be making decisions with a clear and energetic mind.
6. Keep your wedding in-budget.
Financial stress can feel crippling, so try your best to stay within the bounds. I know that’s easier said than done, but I believe in you! If you’re in need of a little extra help, check out this budget calculator by The Knot!
7. Get outside everyday.
Not as a check-list item, but to help clear your mind and give you perspective. Vitamin D is a beautiful creation!
8. Set expectations.
If your expectations are too high and nothing seems to be coming together, consider reevaluating. Unmet expectations are typically the cause of all frustrations!
9. Acknowledge your priorities.
What is your day about? If it’s not about how the invitation looks, don’t stress about it. If it’s not about how Auntie Sue feels, don’t stress about it.
10. Spend time with your girlfriends.
Soak up the singleness before the wedding, because you’ll miss living with your girls!
You’ve got this, friend! Take this stress-free engagement one step at a time, and keep the goal in mind. I’m rooting for you! For more tips and tricks on surviving engagement season, visit my blog at eleanorstenner.com!
